Job 2:11a,13
11 Now when Job's three friends heard of all this evil that had come upon him, they came each from his own place, …13 And they sat with him on the ground seven days and seven nights, and no one spoke a word to him, for they saw that his suffering was very great.
What do you say to a grieving person? Whether you have suffered like that person or not, their suffering is still intense and intensely personal. Coming up with something to say feels like letting your kids help with cooking, you just hope they don’t mess it up too much. Here we have some good news: your presence is your best ministry.
One prominent pastor’s wife lost her son to suicide. She said these friends of Job did such a good job until they started speaking. If you know someone who is experiencing grief, big or small, weep with those who weep. And do so knowing you serve a God who, like Christ with Lazarus’ family, wept with you.
Prayer prompt: Lord, thank You for healing me by suffering with me. Teach me to be willing to suffer for others.



















